
October 20, 2001: The day finally arrived. I was so nervous. All of my girls were going to show up around 2:00 p.m. We finally got all the dresses sized and the tuxes were in and everything was going well.....until me and my little sis went to get our hair "did" at a local salon. I HATED my hair. Come on!!! This was my wedding day!! My hair was supposed to be perfect..and it looked HORRID! I went home and scrambled to remove all of the bobby pins from the "up do" (and I use the term loosely). I grabbed a curling iron and just as I was about to scream, my best friend showed up to save the day! Ang fixed my hair and it looked fabulous. Not as great as I wanted it to look for my day, but MUCH better than what I PAID for.
We scheduled the wedding at 3:00 p.m. I know now that I was supposed to get married at half past some hour because of superstition. It all worked out though. The guests started arriving and I was standing in the annex watching everyone, dying for a smoke (I know it's yucky, but I did it back then), but not able to have one because my family knew not of my habit :). The time drew closer and closer and suddenly April, May, June, July....they all seemed so close where they were once so far away. Memories of the last few months shot through my mind like rockets. It was all going so quickly now. It seemed like only yesterday we sat on the floor in an empty trailer, admiring our hard work and enjoying every minute we spent together. Just yesterday, he dropped to one knee and asked for my hand in marriage, all the while I was stunned that I thought he had fallen into the lake. Only yesterday, the world stopped turning when terrorists destroyed our way of life and killed so many innocent people and brought me to my knees with fear of no tomorrow.
And there I was, looking into the eyes of my "Mr. Right", as he waited for my daddy to turn me over to him. I knew it was all he could do to let me go, but he knew he had to do it. When asked who gave me to be married, with tear filled eyes, my daddy almost whispering, said, "Me and her mother" and slowly walked back to join her. The preacher, whom I had adored my entire life, began his prayers and vows and they, too, seemed like only seconds. "This ring I give to you, in token and pledge, of our constant faith, and abiding love".
In what seemed to be seconds, it was over and all the planning and preparation was complete. We were now, Mr. and Mrs. Joshua Vaughn Prater.
In a whirlwind, we were off to start our life together, with the hand of God on our shoulders, guiding us through the thick forest. We were now ONE!